About Kris


Aloha!

I was adopted as a baby and raised in a Baptist home where my parent's instilled their extreme beliefs. My parents were both teachers, who insisted my studies took precedence to fun. I attended a private school where I soared academically and athletically. I was popular and well-liked by everyone. But as early as I can remember, I felt displaced.

Being molested by a family member is my first memory. I lost my virginity at 11 years old and joined the adult industry when I turned 18. I didn't know it then, but it would take me 20 years to sort out all of the mental and emotional turmoil that was embedded deep within my soul due to these mentioned situations.

I made money. I made powerful friends, and the "Hey, look at me" lifestyle, began:

Crime,

Drugs,

Sex,

Violence.

I dated the wrong people. Money went to my head. The drugs got out of control. Crime started to catch up with me. And then at 20, I was arrested for a violent charge.

I was court ordered to leave the state. I was sentanced to a lockdown rehab facility. I completed everything with flying colors. But my heart had never changed.

I hit a few bottoms and came back up, barely. I eventually married and had 2 children. From the outside, everything looked "put together" but behind closed doors was a different story.

After nearly 10 years of suffering through an abusive marriage, I exploded. Shamefully.

I went right back to all the things I knew: Crime, Drugs, Sex, Violence...

But this time, I lost everything.

With food on the stove and children waiting to be fed, I left home and NEVER returned again.

I was sentenced to prison.

3 years.

I lost my home. I lost my cars. I lost my dogs. And my children were rehomed with their grandparents. I was angry. And I planned on serving my time as so. But, there was a specific moment when I sat inside my prison cell and I made the decision that I wanted to change. And THAT is what I did. Don't get me wrong, it was a constant working progress and I often took many steps back before taking a step forward.

Prison gave me an opportunity that life doesn't give . . . I had nothing but time. Time to sit and think. Time to reflect. Time to take accountability. Time to fix my wrongs. Time to plan for my future. Time to mend things with the people that I loved and lost. Time to peel back the layers to my very core and address EVERY SINGLE MOMENT that was a part of my life, that had chiseled away at my soul and hindered growth.


So here's the thing, I've had some really good people in my life. And I've had some really bad ones. I've been broken and beaten and there are times I've gotten back up and there's times I've laid down and surrendered. But TODAY, the only thing beaten, is the vicious life cycle I was living.


Prison changed my life. Prison changed me. And in prison, I met someone else going through the exact same things. So I married her.


*We understand! We've been there. Between Megan and I, there isn't much loss that one of us hasn't experienced. Sometimes, all it takes is at one person to believe in you, to see your worth and to push you out of the darkness. If you don't have that someone, we will be that someone for you. You are worthy!*


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